I am shocked at the small number of comments even mentioning this big part of the story. Really shows how poorly people understand what constitutes SA. She was raped and in many states that is still a legal reason to abort.
It’s not a big part of the story from the husband’s perspective. The SA doesn’t change the fact she cheated and the initial sexual encounter was consensual.
Ok, good for you. It doesn’t seem to be a big deal for him. I’m not even sure it registered to either of them that it’s rape actually. Clearly their relationship is not healthy.
Consent could be taken away at any moment. Further, the removal of a condom during the act and she objects and/or is not aware of its removal, is the literal definition of rape, you nimrod.
They are completely different things. I never said they were. The guys asked if he was the AH for leaving his wife because she got pregnant on a revenge affair. So while they’re completely different things, both are relevant to the topic of this thread.
'rape is fine if there has been initial consent' wtf are you talking about?! The husband is a waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay worse human being for completely ignoring his wifes been raped. Not only was he the one cheating first, his views on how 'abortion for me, not for thee' are utterly disgusting. You trying to defend this somehow is just baffling and uneducated and ignorant. Would you say marital rape is fine since marriage is initial consent to sex?!
That’s not what I said, of course rape is never ok. I’m saying that it doesn’t change the fact she cheated on him. And I’m not trying to defend him, they’re definitely both AHs.
333
u/SusanBHa 4d ago
So your wife was stealthed, which is a form of rape. Yes she was cheating but both of you suck.