r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

AITAH for leaving my wife after she got pregnant by a revenge affair?

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u/despe666 6d ago

I don’t question the fact this was rape, but she did consent to the initial protected sex so there’s no argument that she willfully cheated on him.

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u/snakewithnoname 5d ago

Consent could be taken away at any moment. Further, the removal of a condom during the act and she objects and/or is not aware of its removal, is the literal definition of rape, you nimrod.

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u/despe666 5d ago

Of course consent can be removed at any time, but it doesn’t change the fact that the cheating itself was consensual.

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u/snakewithnoname 5d ago

That doesn’t matter, cheating is not illegal, however rape is. What’s so hard to understand that they’re two completely different things.

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u/despe666 5d ago

They are completely different things. I never said they were. The guys asked if he was the AH for leaving his wife because she got pregnant on a revenge affair. So while they’re completely different things, both are relevant to the topic of this thread.

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u/snakewithnoname 5d ago

OP is a massive piece of shit for not even caring that his wife was fucking raped. There that’s it. And you are too for being a rape apologist.

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u/despe666 5d ago

I’m curious how you came to the wrong conclusion that I’m a rape apologist.

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u/snakewithnoname 5d ago

Because you keep glazing over the fact a blatant crime occurred.

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u/despe666 5d ago

And you’re obsessed with it and think it excuses everything the wife did before it happened.