r/AITAH 6d ago

AITAH for leaving my wife after she got pregnant by a revenge affair?

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u/TheFrogsHiccup 6d ago

I am shocked at the small number of comments even mentioning this big part of the story. Really shows how poorly people understand what constitutes SA. She was raped and in many states that is still a legal reason to abort.

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u/despe666 6d ago

It’s not a big part of the story from the husband’s perspective. The SA doesn’t change the fact she cheated and the initial sexual encounter was consensual.

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u/na_diney 5d ago

'rape is fine if there has been initial consent' wtf are you talking about?! The husband is a waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay worse human being for completely ignoring his wifes been raped. Not only was he the one cheating first, his views on how 'abortion for me, not for thee' are utterly disgusting. You trying to defend this somehow is just baffling and uneducated and ignorant. Would you say marital rape is fine since marriage is initial consent to sex?!

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u/despe666 5d ago

That’s not what I said, of course rape is never ok. I’m saying that it doesn’t change the fact she cheated on him. And I’m not trying to defend him, they’re definitely both AHs.