r/tifu 4d ago

TIFU by being labelled a pedophile for asking about consent. S

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u/checco314 4d ago

Well, they did read between the lines. They just read the most obvious assumption, instead of the one OP apparently meant.

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u/Liraeyn 4d ago

In fairness, assuming it's about sex is playing the odds.

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u/checco314 4d ago

Of course. "Age of Consent" laws aren't about earrings.

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u/SomeAwfulMillennial 4d ago

Ugh, thats so gross.

"At what age can a child give consent" should never be misconstrued as "When should the age of consent be"

Those are two very different things.

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u/lipp79 4d ago

Why the fuck wouldn’t you just continue the sentence, “…to get their ears pierced?”. There’s no fucking way you just thought everyone would know you didn’t mean sexually since that’s the context “consent” is used in a majority of the time.

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u/mycenae42 4d ago

OP knew exactly what he was doing.

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u/XIIIJinx 4d ago

I'm amazed that you admitted you fucked up, everyone is agreeing with you and you're still trying to justify it lol

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u/SomeAwfulMillennial 4d ago

Hell yeah, it's hilarious.

Two words, easily could've made it work.

Not justifying it though, just giving context... Like the context I probably should've used! lol

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u/Rengiil 4d ago

Consent is only ever discussed in a sexual context

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u/White_Petal534 4d ago

Not only ever, but definitely typically.

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u/Rengiil 4d ago

Yeah, just a little exaggeration

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u/Lokijai 3d ago

Don't confuse consent with age of consent.

Even privacy and data laws refer to consent.

Consent to marketing.

The list goes on.

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u/Rengiil 3d ago

Yeah but it's still sexual consent. The average person isn't talking about consent to be governed or consent to marketing.

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u/Lokijai 3d ago

Obviously you are ignorant and steadfast in your ignorance so I won't even try to educate you.

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u/Rengiil 3d ago

You're either just not understanding what I'm saying or you're angry and upset for some reason and refuse to acknowledge the obvious. It's why you can't even claim to be able to walk through the logic that leads to your conclusion.

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u/Lokijai 3d ago

Consider that you bargained on the average person agreeing with you but the downvotes and replies are not in line with that assumption.

Then read back what you wrote to but on the recieving end.

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u/bearded_unwonder 4d ago

Categorically untrue 😅

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u/Rengiil 4d ago edited 4d ago

You're free to be wrong. Consent is rarely talked about in any other context. The only kind of consent that is culturally discussed and is most culturally relatable to everyone is sexual consent.

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u/LaLechuzaVerde 4d ago

They ABSOLUTELY talk about consent in other contexts. This includes ear piercing, vaccination, circumcision, and many other medical procedures.

I’ve had many lengthy conversations with people on the internet about our experiences being given drugs or procedures without consent during childbirth, for example.

OP, I think I found the redditor that got you banned. 🙄

I totally get why people might jump to that conclusion if no context is given, but I really find it disturbing that you think the conversation around consent is only about sex.

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u/russianbanan 4d ago

As someone in the healthcare field ooooh absolutely consent to medical procedures!! That’s a big one! HIPAA waivers for research too is a big one.

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u/Rengiil 4d ago

It's not only around consent. Just like 90 percent of the time.

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u/AnAdoptedImmortal 3d ago edited 3d ago

What do you think is more likely? People going around concerning themselves with the age of sexual consent? Or people having discussions around medical concent, legal concent in regards to privacy laws and user agreements?

It seems to me that it would be a small minority of conversations around sexual concent. It is also usually only ever brought up by weirdos who try to justify their weird positions when there is a pedophilia or rape case in the news. The vast majority of people are on the same page regarding the age of sexual concent and have no interest in even discussing it as it's a pretty clear-cut topic. The only time someone would have to talk about it is when they feel the need to disagree with it in some way.

So, I think you're being biased by your own thoughts. If anything is more like only 5% of conversations regarding consent are about the age of sexual consent. The rest of the discussions would be focused on things like the consent of consumers and patients.

But thanks for letting us all know where your head is at, creep.

PS. I can't remember the last time I discussed the age of consent before now. But I can remember plenty of conversations with people about consumer consent and the predatory practices of corporations. I literally had a conversation last week about user consent and the decisions Microsoft has made with Windows 11.

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u/Character-Ad-4774 4d ago

What about in the medical field…there’s a whole big ethical principle of medical treatment called informed consent

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u/Rengiil 4d ago

This isn't a sub full of medical professionals discussing policy. Obviously consent exists outside of a sexual context, it's just nearly all cultural discussion and nuance of consent is based around a sexual context. If you ask about consent to the average person, their first thought is sexual consent. Because it's the most widely discussed and relatable form of consent for everyone.

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u/Lokijai 3d ago

I think you and OP are made for each other, both are stubbornly stupid.

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u/DazB1ane 4d ago

I often refuse consent for people to hug me. That’s a common variation talked about

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u/Strong_Mushroom_6593 4d ago

What’s wrong with your brain that lets you think you know what everyone else talks about?

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u/Rengiil 4d ago

You're doing the same thing. Thinking I'm wrong is also making an active decision in assuming you know what everyone else discusses.

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u/Strong_Mushroom_6593 4d ago

What assumption? We’re literally on a post right now where that happened.

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u/extremelyinsecure123 4d ago

Uhh… did ya read the post? You’re wrong and the facts are RIGHT in front of you bud.

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u/mindedmonk 3d ago

I needed my parents to sign a consent form to join the army when I was 17. 

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u/pikachu8090 4d ago edited 3d ago

And to give the benefit of the doubt to reddit, a widely known gaming streamer has just been exposed for sexting a minor, so they could've been asking about this as well. I don't blame them

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u/PKMNTrainerMark 3d ago

Happy Cake Day

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u/AbroadPlane1172 4d ago

OP is definitely fishing to find out if it's socially OK to fuck teenagers.

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u/DJKokaKola 3d ago

Handy flowchart for everyone:

Are you a teenager?

If yes: if you're both giving affirmative consent, be smart and safe. Obviously this implies no power impalance (mentor/mentee, significantly older teen with young teen, etc.), but otherwise use contraceptives and don't get hurt physically or emotionally and do whatever.

If no: no.

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u/OverturnedAppleCart3 4d ago

They just read the most obvious assumption, instead of the one OP apparently meant.

Not everyone thinks the word "consent" is only about sex.

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

Not just consent. But basically asked for age of consent.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent

I'll give you two guesses what that link is about, but I'm pretty sure you only need one.

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u/OverturnedAppleCart3 3d ago

Counterpoint Wikipedia - Consent

Consent occurs when one person voluntarily agrees to the proposal or desires of another. It is a term of common speech, with specific definitions as used in such fields as the law, medicine, research, and sexual relationships. Consent as understood in specific contexts may differ from its everyday meaning. For example, a person with a mental disorder, a low mental age, or under the legal age of sexual consent may willingly engage in a sexual act that still fails to meet the legal threshold for consent as defined by applicable law.

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

Counterpoint, this is ignoring half the question asked and removing all context. Sooooo... agree to disagree because I read full sentences and not just half the words.

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u/OverturnedAppleCart3 3d ago

Counterpoint, this is ignoring half the question asked and removing all context. Sooooo... agree to disagree because I read full sentences and not just half the words.

Did you forget to read the full post?

Today, this got me wondering about what other people think regarding the entire idea of children being able to consent to things. The age to get piercings, tattoos and the like because it's always neat to see another take on a subject.

I read the full texts, not just half of the sentences.

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u/[deleted] 3d ago edited 3d ago

Did you read the post they linked?

Edit: they did.

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u/OverturnedAppleCart3 3d ago

Did you read the post they linked?

Actually they didn't link a post.