r/AITAH • u/midnightanglewing • 4d ago

Update AITAH for not sharing my reception with my older sister

Original post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/uxUG8BXO2Z

Update the vow renewal ceremony went long so we where behind showing up to receptions. The shuddle showed up just in time to see security stopping my sister (without her husband) & other uninvited guest getting ID.I ask my party to stay back a minute as I didn't want to over whelm the security. Granted to say it turn into a bit of entertainment. She had a couple hundred dollar dress & was trying overwhelmed the security with just the amount of people . The guard had quite a voice & yell loudly tha anyone who is here for dig sister reception is in the wrong place & will not allowed in unless they where on the guest list. A large group of her party just walked away. My big sister starts demanding to speak to the manager & how dare he scare people off. The manager show up alongside more security. My sister puts on her best crying act ever but the manager just say she & her guest has 5 mintues to leave the property or the police will be involved. She storms off screaming about how it was unfair & how much money she wasted on a dress for this night.

The rest of the night was uneventful & was really chill. The staff & security got a very good tip & any left over alchohol or food they wanted. I hope that was the end of that but this morning I get a money request for $400 USD from my sister saying if I don't pay she will sue me. I have a lawyer so this is of no concern to me because she wouldn't have grounds to stand on. I swear she getting worse with time & need some mental help. I'm am limiting contact with her to email & only in regard to my mom's care.

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u/Critical-Wear5802 3d ago

..just out of nosiness... How many uninvited guests of sister's showed up? Trying to figure out the size of her entitlement!

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u/midnightanglewing 3d ago edited 3d ago

She had 6 family members that I didn't invite & 7 of her friends. So 13 in total that showed up. The reception hall was only rated for 25 people.

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u/Foreign-Yesterday-89 3d ago

Why wasn’t her husband with her?

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u/Lathari 3d ago

Most likely slunk away as soon as the security prevented entry.

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u/midnightanglewing 3d ago

He seem what I said Facebook & probably didn't go along with her for that reason. He a very nice guy that trying to keep peace & help her get help.

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u/medicalbillsrus 3d ago

And her DH was NOT there, right?

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u/midnightanglewing 3d ago

Nope. He never showed up.

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u/Samarkand457 3d ago

If he had a brain in his skull, he would have packed his shit and hauled ass to the nearest divorce lawyer's office.

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u/Critical-Wear5802 3d ago

Holy CARP! 🐟 That's some majorly entitled audacity! I am SO glad you had security!