r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

AITAH for leaving my wife after she got pregnant by a revenge affair?

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u/Argon847 6d ago

She also got assaulted. Stealthing (taking the condom off midway without the others consent) is rape.

Came here to say the same thing. I'm glad more people are raising awareness about this because it's a fucked up, revolting crime.

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u/usernametaken585 6d ago

Had a guy take the condom off before. It was very shameful to me. I felt violated

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u/sassy_salamander_ 5d ago

This has happened to me. I still think about it sometimes and internalized it because someone tried to tell me it wasn’t assault and I was just overreacting. It’s horrible

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u/usernametaken585 5d ago

Same. People said I should have known the condom was off. It was only my 2nd person I’d been with.

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u/sassy_salamander_ 5d ago

If people could feel it in the moment we would never hear about “broken condom babies” because they’d be able to feel it and say “let’s get a new condom”. It’s harder to tell than people think. It doesn’t come from experience or anything, these people just suck and violate trust.