r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

AITAH for leaving my wife after she got pregnant by a revenge affair?

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u/Argon847 6d ago

She also got assaulted. Stealthing (taking the condom off midway without the others consent) is rape.

Came here to say the same thing. I'm glad more people are raising awareness about this because it's a fucked up, revolting crime.

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u/McMenz_ 6d ago

It’s a seperate and nuanced issue.

She was sexually assaulted and it’s horrible that happened to her, if it’s true she should report the man to the police and get medical treatment.

Seperately she also cheated on OP and the assault doesnt change that. She didn’t consent to sex without a condom but she did consent to sex with another man with a condom. If the scenario had played out as she consented she still would’ve been having sex with another man.

ESH - (her judgment has nothing to do with her being assaulted and it doesn’t mean she deserved to be assaulted in anyway).

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u/xMagicxxTonguex 5d ago

They're cheaters, so who says she isn't lying about the whole condom thing? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Sounds to me like she fucked up and is trying to find a way to avoid responsibility and pass the blame off on the guy she fucked. A guy who may or may not have known she was even married.

I just feel bad for the child that has to grown up in this fucked up world being raised by either one of these people.