You should have split as soon as YOU cheated if not before. The relationship is obviously unstable and unhealthy if one is cheating and the other cheats as a form of revenge. You two do need to divorce from the sound of things. This is all around a crappy situation
In some states, like WI, only the husband can be on the birth certificate. The bio dad can be but needs to fill out a notorized VPA before being able to be put on the birth certificate. What’s worse is, if the husband isn’t the father, doesn’t matter. Obv can fight it but shitty to be even out in that situation.
That’s a good point. Didn’t think about that. So they rather give the shaft to the wrong person than so the state can avoid paying. Agreed about dna paternity results being much quicker these days.
Who knows? Anyways, DNA tests aren't expensive and you pretty much, at this stage, contest the paternity and when the DNA test comes back, that's the end of the road on that one.
100%. Shoot they do so much testing at the hospital once the kid is born, what’s a paternity test to add to it. Used to be able to do the VPA at the hospital too but since Covid, notaries don’t go to the historical as much.
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u/yourgirlangela 4d ago
ESH
You should have split as soon as YOU cheated if not before. The relationship is obviously unstable and unhealthy if one is cheating and the other cheats as a form of revenge. You two do need to divorce from the sound of things. This is all around a crappy situation