r/AITAH • u/Few_Relative4595 • 7d ago

AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us?

So, my girlfriend (20f) and I (22m) have been together for a little over 10 months now. We haven't had any heated arguments or fights, except for the fact that she keeps tickling me randomly despite the fact that I've repeatedly told her to never do it again because I can act strangely to it (something from my childhood which I won't delve into).

Now to get to the current situation: this week I've had my car returned from a paint job and some major look changes and I was really satisfied with the results, so I took a day off from work and took my girlfriend on a short trip outside the city. We drove to a lake, ate some food and relaxed for a couple of hours until it got pretty dark and we decided to head back home to get some sleep as I had to go to work the next day and she had an exam. On the way home, I started talking about how happy I felt with how the paint job turned out and out of nowhere, she starts tickling me. I pushed her hand away and told her to stop, then she reached for my ribs with both hands and got me swerving off the road.

Thankfully, nobody was hurt (although my car got some deep scratches but that doesn't even matter anymore), as I already slowed down after her first attempt to tickle me. I'll admit that I told her "what the fuck is wrong with you" as soon as we stepped out of the car and she started crying, but I couldn't care less as I felt as if my veins were about to pop.
When we got home, I told her to pack her things and go to her best friend, but she threw a tantrum and begged me to forgive her for "a little mistake".

I didn't say a word, I simply stared in disgust and pointed to her luggage. After her friend picked her up, I tried to go to sleep but my mind was racing, so i barely got any rest. This happened on tuesday, and she's been blowing up my phone ever since, but I haven't answered any calls or texts and just blocked her. This led to her friend coming to my house and telling me to at least hear my girlfriend out, but I've told her to fuck off and leave me alone, which made her tell me that I'm more in love with a car than with my girlfriend.

So, AITAH in this situation? Should I talk to my girlfriend? I already feel like I can't trust her after what happened and that our relationship can't be fixed.

Update: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/55iHa59YgW

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u/Stinky_WhizzleTeats 7d ago

That’s always some weird irony when the cause of the crazy situation is the only one to die from it

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u/yourmomsgomjabbar 7d ago

It's like sunshine on your wedding day,
a free ride just before you would've paid,
It's the good advice you decided to take
Who would've thought, it's fitting?

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u/Mstinos 6d ago

This is a nice poem.

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u/kellsdeep 6d ago

First time exposed to it?

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u/Mstinos 6d ago

Yes it is, what is it from?

It s going to be some pop song isn't it?

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u/Scorp128 6d ago

Alanis Morissette is the artist. Ironic is the name of the song. It is the third single off her third studio album called Jagged Little Pill. The album was released in 1995 and Ironic was released as a single in February 1996. It was written by Alanis and Glen Ballard. Glen also produced the song. It is not a pop song. It is classified as Alternative Rock/Indie.

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u/Mstinos 6d ago

Damn, you know your stuff.

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u/Scorp128 6d ago

I wore out the cassette playing that album. Love that album. I played the entire thing all the way through. Still hits well today.

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u/kellsdeep 6d ago

One of the best albums of my lifetime in my opinion. I spent all my allowance money on the CD and listened to it non stop. Alanis wrote it after a traumatic breakup. Later she found love and made another album. Would not recommend... Lol