r/lonely 4d ago

21F, never held a guys hand before. Venting

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u/jamalzia 4d ago

I was above average in looks, according to the many women who found me hot. I didn't lose my virginity or have a relationship until 23. Everyone moves at different paces, no big deal. That nervousness you feel is normal, we get nervous over things we're not experienced in that are important to us. Enjoy that innocent nervousness while you can, because as you grow and gain experiences, you'll never feel it again, at least not in this context.