r/BreakUps 4d ago

I broke up and blindsided my ex of 3 years, and then regretted ending it and tried to win her back. AMA

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u/Temporary_Economics8 4d ago

good. I hope she found a dude that really loves her, and that he treats her like a princess, and has a huge dck.

people like you leave the partner guessing full time, you’re a huge cognitive load, instead of humanizing yourselves and working in your empathy, you use the person that loves you leveraging on their suffering, and you never work on healing and bringing peace. Oh but you’re the first to throw blame.

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u/No_Cash_9081 4d ago

Thank you so much for saying that, made me feel better actually. My avoidant ex did the exact same thing OP did.