r/BreakUps • u/youtinyfools • 4d ago
People who have survived heartbreak…how’d you do it?
It’s been a week since the person I love told me they realized they don’t love me back after 8 months together, and that they still love their ex from before me. I oscillate between devastated and enraged—both with lots of crying.
If you’ve survived a heartbreak, how did you do it? Were you able to love again? Be happy again? When did it stop hurting so bad? Is there another side to come out on?
Love to all 💓❤️🫶🏻
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u/nadineorabi 4d ago
LOVE YOURSELF, no one dies for the other person. Take time to heal you will find love again but you have to love yourself first work, do sports and work keep on working and make yourself busy all the time. When needed cry and miss him but do not speak to him. Give yourself time to cry and raise up again. Never forget your will be stronger I’m still under the healing process and I can tell you the first month was horrible yet through time I became better . Somedays my emotions are down but now I’m able to control myself more