r/AITAH • u/HopefullyIntentional • 4d ago

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u/Frozefoots 4d ago

All well and good to hold him back when he’s 9, but at 16? Good luck, SIL, because you’re raising a monster that will one day be stronger than your ability to hold him back.

NTA. Need to find out the root cause of why he’s acting like this. If it’s unchecked autism or ADHD then he needs intervention. If it’s your SIL’s shitty gentle parenting then she’s the AH.

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u/Kajira4ever 4d ago

If it's a medical reason he'd behave the same way at school. He doesn't. Agreed they need to get help and find the cause