r/AITAH • u/HopefullyIntentional • 4d ago
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r/AITAH • u/HopefullyIntentional • 4d ago
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u/NHFNCFRE 4d ago
Info: what, are they doing to help him learn to relate himself at home? What is different at school? Is he identified in any way (ODD, defiance disorder, something else?)
Frankly, I question if he is controlling himself at school; too often teachers and paras are expected to just put up with physical violence.
A growing 9yo is soon going to be too big to physically hold back. They're creating a monster. Is he in counseling? Really, the whole family should be. If he needs methods to get his aggression out, boxing, karate classes or similar would be appropriate outlets for him.
I'm going with ESH. The kid for the aggression, the parents for allowing it, and you for hitting so hard that long-term marks were left. It's not uncommon to react out of fear or hurt, but this doesn't sound like that happened.