r/AITAH 6d ago

AITAH for leaving my wife after she got pregnant by a revenge affair?

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u/Argon847 6d ago

She also got assaulted. Stealthing (taking the condom off midway without the others consent) is rape.

Came here to say the same thing. I'm glad more people are raising awareness about this because it's a fucked up, revolting crime.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

But she also continued after he took it off...

Or she is just saying that the guy took it off midway to make it seem less shitty....which makes it more shitty because you continued...

I don't buy it

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u/CaffeineandHate03 6d ago

It's not uncommon here (Eastern US). I'm a therapist and I've heard this story from humiliated women many times. Sometimes they pull it down little by little, until it falls off inside the girl. Only for her to discover once they are gone. And no, we can't feel that.

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

Sorry just asked several adult human females with vaginas and they all said they could feel if a condom was inside them.

Go ahead and downvoted me though, I know this day and age you can't not trust any women ever nor remove any blame from a man and place it on a woman regardless of how much it is deserved.

This woman cheated. Lied. I'm the bad guy for pointing it out though huh?