r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • 4d ago

AITAH for leaving my wife after she got pregnant by a revenge affair?

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u/NiceRat123 4d ago

"You can go to another state and get an abortion"

The edit: "I'm not at ease about the idea of abortion and shouldn't be done often...."

Yeah unless it affects you. Fucking asshole

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u/TheBerethian 4d ago

I mean ideally no abortion is done often - that people use birth control, assaults never happen, and birth defects are rare.

Ideally.

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u/LoveForMiles 4d ago

Upvoting you back to neutral because I get what you’re saying. No one WANTS to get an abortion; in a perfect world, birth control is infallible, there are no unwanted pregnancies, and no genetic issues or complications making wanted pregnancies unviable. But OP sounds like a hypocrite. “I don’t support abortion but I’ll look the other way if it benefits me.”

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u/XepherWolf 4d ago

Yep

I don't know what OPs logic is , he is against abortion but tells her "well, then divorce!" ...like there was another option 💀💀💀💀

(must be nice to not have a uterus and worry about a man pulling a condom off mid sex without consent and worry about unwanted pregnancy)

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u/AJSLS6 3d ago

It's sad that even among likeminded people it took this deep into the comments to even get a hint of "so that was fucked up" concerning the statutory rape of the admittedly shitty wife.

I know it's somehow still a bit controversial, but it's absolutely rape/assault to remove the condom secretly after gaining consent for protected sex. Even removed from the practical consequences of disease and pregnancy it's still a violation.

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u/eaazzy_13 2d ago

If that really happened to her that is truly fucked, but in this scenario I think smart money is on her lying about that.

These are really shitty people we are talking about here