My stepmom took all of my horror stuff out of my room for her kid to be less scared

[u/Hour_Peace9278]

So I (15f) has this whole horror obsession, I’m crazy for it I don’t think it would be much of a surprise if I said Halloween is my favourite holiday..

My father (41m) has married my stepmother (38f) let’s call her Abby… now Abby has two sons and a daughter I’m not going to use their real names but give them fake ones.. Zack (16) Evan (18) and Katie (8)

I would like to start off by saying I don’t want to sound like a brat but for the longest time it’s only been me and my dad

So a few moths later Abby and her kids moved in and the boys had to share a room and for some time Katie had her own but my stepmom needed an office room so while I was visiting my grandma and grandpa Katie moved in my room that’s not the issue I don’t mind sharing but the issue I have is I ADORE anything horror so I have a lot of posters,merchandise I even have a Chucky doll, so when I come back from my grandparents my dad and Abby sat me down and said my room needed to change and be more kid friendly obviously I was pissed and stared complaining how it wasn’t fair

And Abby said her child should matter just as me, that’s when my blood was boiling.. so I yelled it was my room first if she didn’t like it she could sleep in the hallway or in the dog bed

My dad got mad and sent me to my room, I get up in the morning and get ready to go to school and when I came back boxes of my posters and funko pops were in boxes with a bunch of other things, only to see Abby talking them down… I get mad and yell at her that’s until my dad comes over and tries to calm me down and tells Abby she should stop but only for her to say ‘my child is scared of all this shit!’

I screamed for ages going back and forth with her until she threw a box and a glass object shattered.. so if she wants to brake my things I’ll brake her kids, I know this is going to abound petty but I grab her kids Barbie and ripped its head off and pulled the legs off and turned to her and say “brake anymore of my things and I smash your laptop up” My dad trying to deescalate the situation said to me go take five outside and from outside I hear my dad abs stepmom yelling at each other

Should I feel bad?

[u/VictoryShaft]

You are NTA.

There are a number of AHs in your post. Your step mom and your dad are the biggest AHs in this story.

What did your dad yell at her about? He was obviously on her side at the beginning of your post. Did it take her actually breaking your things before he realized that she was wrong?

[u/Hour_Peace9278 → u/VictoryShaft]

So my dad and stepmom were talking them she started yelling how her child is scared and everything but Katie never complained once about my horror stuff and if she did I would understand but I would still be pissed if she’s still did it

So my dad said you broke her picture frame(it has a sentimental value to it) and she said it’s a frame get over it and it was a back and forth thing but I might update tomorrow depending on how I feel

[u/LilithWasAGinger → u/Hour_Peace9278]

This mom is proud of you for standing up for yourself.