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How can humanity disappoint so much šŸ‡²ā€‹šŸ‡®ā€‹šŸ‡øā€‹šŸ‡Øā€‹

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u/Entire-Cow-1641 4d ago

Jesus Christ, love or hate Taylor Swift, itā€™s not cool to admit to wishing an eating disorder on someone. So weird.

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u/MAGES-1 4d ago

True, wtf if wrong with people

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u/wideHippedWeightLift 4d ago

A lot of women grow up with this kind of abuse from other girls as early as elementary school. It becomes normal to them and they continue the cycle

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u/Fucktastickfantastic 4d ago

I got it from my mum.

Can you say cabbage soup diet?!

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u/Strawberry_Coven 4d ago

Omggg. My mom and grandma spent a lot of time alternating me between the cabbage soup diet and the tea and toast diet. Then me aunt went into weight watchers and I remember being 11 and bringing the points counter booklet to school with me. ā€œCabbage soup dietā€ was like a sleeper phrase.

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u/TurangaLeela78 4d ago

Iā€™m a medical coder and the doctors often refer to patientsā€™ hyponatremia/low sodium as being due to their tea and toast diet. I always thought it referred to the way some of these older people who just arenā€™t thriving and arenā€™t hungry ate. I didnā€™t realize it was an actual DIET at some point. šŸ˜³

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u/HaloGuy381 4d ago

I would not have thought in 2024 that low sodium would be a routinely seen medical problem.

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u/TurangaLeela78 4d ago

Itā€™s usually caused by an illness and not due to not eating enough salt, but it does happen.

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u/McSavvy 4d ago

Nope.

If you donā€™t balance the ions they go away.

The people who studiously avoid all salts is insane)

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u/TurangaLeela78 4d ago

Nope to what?

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u/McSavvy 4d ago

Wait youā€™re correct Iā€™m exhausted and going to bed.

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u/TurangaLeela78 4d ago

Bahahaha fair enough. Sleep well!

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u/TurangaLeela78 4d ago

Thereā€™s also ā€œbeer potomania,ā€ which is hyponatremia that happens to alcoholics whose diet is mainly booze.

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u/jenn44244 4d ago

I have borderline low sodium...probably my autoimmune diseases causing it.

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u/McSavvy 4d ago

Oh god. Hold my beer. With salt.

Clinical lab scientist, some people go wayyy to far avoiding salt. Which also leads to magnesium, phosphorus, and ALL other electrolytes related issues.

Potassium is the worst. Your muscles canā€™t work without it.

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u/anneboleynfan1 4d ago

Eventually itā€™s gonna go in the ICD-10

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u/TurangaLeela78 4d ago

I wouldnā€™t be surprised at all. Considering, you know, ā€œstruck by turtle.ā€ šŸ˜¬

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u/Typical_Carpet_4904 4d ago

How often does this happen??? JFC I get patients with f***** up electrolytes but you make it sound like it's an everyday thing for you

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u/TurangaLeela78 4d ago edited 4d ago

Well, I code inpatient/hospital charts, soā€¦constantly. Itā€™s a code I have memorized and use everyday. But these are obviously very ill (therefore hospitalized) people. With all kinds of severe diseases. I donā€™t know what kind of provider you are, but Iā€™d guess for outpatient, itā€™d be way less common.

ETA: If you mean hyponatremia due to a ā€œtea and toastā€ diet, thatā€™s more the patients who just donā€™t eat much due to something else, cancer, dementia, etc. If you mean hyponatremia in general, all the time every day all my life.

Disclaimer: not a doctor, not a provider, not claiming to be, just a reader/interpreter of the things doctors say šŸ˜¬

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u/Zerolich 4d ago

Wasn't exclusive to women, I was fat shamed a lot and had my weight watchers slider in middle school. Not ok either way šŸ˜

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u/uliol 4d ago

Iā€™ve been both dangerously underweight and way too overweight. People judged either way. Unfortunately I felt worse super skinny, but was much more accepted and treated better. As a far person people were outright shitty with me.

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u/Strawberry_Coven 4d ago

I never said it was exclusive to womenā€¦

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u/Zerolich 4d ago

Didn't say you did, simply pointed out šŸ˜

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u/Comfortable_Half_605 4d ago

widehipped did sorta imply it was a female cycle which is where the confusion prob came from

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u/Strawberry_Coven 4d ago

And if they didnā€™t say it, then the first comment would be about how men arenā€™t the only ones perpetuating abuse, and how itā€™s women too blah blah blah.

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u/Comfortable_Half_605 3d ago

all i meant is they meant no harm, and their comment makes sense in the context of the other one, have a nice night

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u/oatmilkbukkake 4d ago

I remember being 11 and bringing the points counter booklet to school with me

11?! Jesus

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u/No_Baseball_822 4d ago

Same here! My mom however had me on the grapefruit diet for years. She also told me that I should eat and then throw it up, just like her.

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u/Fucktastickfantastic 4d ago

Ooof, that's harsh.

Mine definitely encouraged grapefruit but not bulimia thankfully. I still tried it myself just for funsies but it didn't stick thankfully

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u/n6mub 3d ago

: |

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u/justk4y 4d ago

My mom literally had that diet because she was made insecure by my dad

Thank god they arenā€™t together anymore

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u/ilovechairs 4d ago

No, I gasped.

Thatā€™s so messed up.

I hope you have a happier and healthy relationship with your body now. Big hugs.

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u/Fucktastickfantastic 4d ago

Thank you. I'm trying to. It's still very hard to accept that I still have value as a currently overweight person. I find mys3lf apologising to people for my size and making excuses when I doubt anyone else cares.

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u/Codeofconduct 4d ago

I'm a fucking dumb dumb and my mom would go on bouts of feeling bad about herself and make that cabbage soup. I LOVE IT. I lost her recipe once and when I found it online listed as a diet I was laughing and laughing. My poor mom, I used to request it! I've never been thin (save a very unhealthy period during my 20s) so she probably thought I was judging her or me or both of us.Ā 

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u/Fucktastickfantastic 4d ago

Yeah, the soup itself isn't bad, not on the first day at least.

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u/Crowbar_The_Rogue 4d ago

Cabbage soup diet?

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u/Cultural_Adeptness86 4d ago

You would literally just eat cabbage soup. Cabbage in a salty broth with no added meat or oil or potatoes, so it would be like 75 calories a bowl. The idea was you'd get full eating the cabbage soup 5x a day but not take in a lot of nutrition, so it was like starving yourself but you still got to eat. I did it when I was 10 and you definitely lost weight, however your digestive system would get wrecked

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u/Scared_Bobcat_5584 4d ago

Sounds like a British diet thing

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u/SpinningJen 4d ago

I don't know if it's exclusively British but it was a fairly popular diet in the UK circa 2000-2010.

The belief was that digesting cabbage took more calories than you obtained from it, so you could eat as much cabbage soup as you like but nothing else

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u/Crowbar_The_Rogue 4d ago

I thought it might be a setup for a joke. Probably not, but it's worth checking.

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u/HugeDouche 4d ago

definitely not a joke or British specific unfortunately. it was a fad diet based around a cabbage soup that was basically just low cal vegetables and water. beloved by mothers with disordered eating everywhere for generations, passing it down to their daughters. I would wager most people who grew up with a bad relationship with food at some point encountered cabbage soup.

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u/Fucktastickfantastic 4d ago

Yup. I grew up in Australia and started going on the diet aged 11. Mum would still yell at me and tell me I was eating too much while on it

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u/CampDracula 4d ago

Old memory unlocked omgggg šŸ˜«

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u/tatonka645 4d ago

I sure do, first one was when my mom wanted me to do it with her when I was 12.

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u/Rebekah_RodeUp 4d ago

That sounds healthier than my diet pepsi breakfast plan.

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u/evidentlynaught 4d ago

Speaking of moms, Taylor may be destined to inherit her momā€™s body type. She can fight it, butā€¦ it would be interesting to see how her mom looked in her 20ā€™s. That might be stressing her more than some rand on tik tok

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u/descendency 3d ago

Itā€™s so weird to see this kind of hate blamed on men but I usually see it on womenā€™s magazines or other women saying it.

Side noteā€¦ it took me far longer than I would like to admit to understand what they meant by ED.

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u/amscraylane 3d ago

Then, having a choad comment on an already very skinny girl saying she has a tummy ā€¦ it makes me at 44 think I am a REAL fatass.