Ethics come from the society you're in. A society where the age of consent is 14 will have very different ethics around this compared to a society where it's 18
You realize in the majority of the world outside of America grown men marrying and having children with young teenagers is normal… and not criminal at all
Age of consent is 14 years old in Albania according to Google. So while creepy by American (and possibly other countries) standards it is more normal in their culture. The age 14 does seem a bit young imo, especially for the age gap between the two.
Tbh lots of things that are "technically legal" are still socially unacceptable.
The age of consent in the UK is 16 but if some dude in his 30s is getting with a 16 year old he will be socially called out on it by the local community.
Sure he won't have done anything illegal but he will have done something that the majority of UK citizens find disgusting and he will be judged for it, ostracised or depending on where about in the country beaten up.
You have never been to Albania, have you? And only rely on census data read without any context.
The commies exterminated religion in Albania down to the roots, few Albanians ever go to church or mosque. Albania is a mostly atheist country in practice, and not even Wahhabist proselytising campaign combined with fat grants for "reverts" was able to swing the population back towards religious practice.
It would still be illegal, Age of consent is 14 but that only means that minors can have intercourse after 14 not that they can do it with adults (you could only do it with people lower than 18)
I believe it’s to help them sleep better plus reddit is flooded with teenagers(HIghschoolers) now, and if they’re grown there’s a lot more growing to do. Don’t argue with people who don’t know how to reason.
No. Thats not True. Even in Germany a 14 Year old can sleep with who ever she wants. It just can't be someone with power over her life, like teachers oder sig parents.
Really only American standards… and even in the US it isn’t a hard 18 many states have an ages of consent of 16 were there is no authority dynamic.
You have to have been born on the same day, have the same income, work the same job, have within 5 IQ points of each other, and be the same physical strength in order to have a truly non-manipulative relationship.
It depends on how old you are. I’d say after 25, any age difference doesn’t really matter since your brain is mostly developed. But when you’re younger, those few years matter.
I'm not condoning it. I still think it's weird. It also, however, is perfectly within the law in the majority of the world, including the majority of US states. She obviously wasn't traumatized by it as you can see in the picture, and that's if the ages are even real. It's unethical but ultimately one of the less severe age gaps I've seen. There's guys in their 20s who go after 13 year olds.
I was in a brief "relationship" with a 22 year old woman when I was 15. I recognize that what she did to me was illegal but I don't really give a shit. Seeing that this woman apparently MARRIED the guy, I don't think it's right to barge into her life and inform her that actually she is a victim.
I'm not trying to be technically correct. What I'm saying is you need to look at things from around the world with some respect to the location and culture where it's occurring.
But I can appreciate your point too, just because something is accepted in another culture doesn't mean that makes it " Right".
The main point is, to at least consider another view point than the screeching eagle that is muricas view point.
I would not, but what I’m saying is this post is literally nothing. Yeah the dude is 8 years older, she had a kid at 16, ultra common in many countries outside the US, and people here are HOL UP WAT, when it’s just a fact of life in some places and normalÂ
I am from Kazakhstan, one of the few countries in Northern hemisphere that still has above 2.1 fertility rate with above three children on average per one woman in our country, our culture is very family oriented and yet this is still not normal for me. This man got her pregnant when she was 15 years old. At that age your brain is still not fully developed and so is your body. A normal 23 years old man wouldn't impregnate a school girl.
But she was 15. I know it's strange for bigott delulu murricans but teenagers have sex all the time all over the world and yeah they sometimes get pregnant.
I am from Kazakhstan, mate. Don't think it's normal for a back then 23 years old guy to knock up a 15 years old school girl. One is doing her math home work while the other already got his bachelor's degree and has a work. There is too much difference mentally and 15 year old can have sex with her peers.
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u/crescent-v2 13d ago
Who are these people? The post is running around social media today with no discussion of who they guy is.